1.
Remember that you are not an angel, your human we make mistakes, but as
a human learn to forgive others first before looking for forgiveness.
Humble yourself by remembering that you are not perfect and nor should
expect people around you to be. That reminder often helps me to forgive
people easily because I know that I can make mistakes too.
2. Reflecting on the good things about the reasons why you loved them
in the first place will help you to be more forgiving. Think about the
good times against the miniscule bad times, and you will find your
answer fairly quickly.
3. Sometimes no matter what you do people will find fault in you, it
doesn’t matter. People will always find ways to look for some way to
make you feel small, it doesn’t matter. Don’t take it personally and
continue to forgive them because at the end of the day, life is too
short to harbour such ill feelings!
4. Saying the words I forgive can have profound effects on you and
your partner that you are saying them to. Saying it aloud to them will
help you let go of any ill feelings towards them, and give them the
reassurance they need that they are forgiven. Letting the negative
feelings go by doing this, will in the end set you both free.
5. Yea it’s a really scary thing especially when you are not a
confrontational person, but sometimes it is best to confront something
at the time it happened or at least later on. How on earth will you move
on in the first place if they don’t know what it is that they need
forgiveness for. It’s also a good form of communication if you talk
through everything; the small problems and the big ones and work
together on forgiveness.
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